Month: January 2023

What makes meetings so dreadful?

What makes meetings so dreadful?

This is a new year. How about re-evaluating your relationship with meetings? Many of my clients have so many meetings that they have no time from 9-5 to get their actual work done. Back-to-back meetings are tough because there is no time to prepare for the meeting or process what was learned at the meeting. Many times, they simply add more “to-do’s” to their ever growing to-do lists.

It doesn’t have to be this way! Here are a few suggestions that I have shared with clients:

  • Schedule 20 minute or 45 minute meetings, it gives you time to breath. Also start and end the meetings on time. Don’t wait for laggards. Respect the time of the people in the room.
  • Be clear about the reason for meeting. What are you trying to solve, what’s the point? State it clearly at the beginning of the meeting and in the meeting invite.
  • Manage the clock like a pro. Use the parking lot when off topic, encourage hearing from many voices but frame out how long they can speak such as “Share your thoughts on this topic in a sentence or two max”.
  • Summarize, make sure there are specific next steps and that someone takes notes and shares them with the group.


What meeting hacks work for you in your organization?

#WiseWords

As a leader, you must consistently drive effective communication. Meetings must be deliberate and intentional – your organizational rhythm should value purpose over habit and effectiveness over efficiency.

Chris Fussell, author

Worth the Share

This blog post makes the point that people should want to attend meetings. When I read that, I rolled my eyes. For all my years in corporate, I rarely felt that way. But good, well-run meetings make things happen and drive progress forward, making people want to attend. Here are six tips from a post I saw on SmartBrief on Leadership:

  • Don’t waste their time – so obvious but often not considered
  • Know your outcomes – and state them clearly and specifically
  • Get the “right” people in the room – another obvious tip but often meeting leaders like to cover their bases. Maybe send follow-up notes instead?
  • Clarify the intent – “informational or to make a decision or act”
  • Clarify who owns the decision – this is my favorite tip since it can be confusing if attendees are not on the same page
  • Turn meetings into results – I like to follow the DACI framework


To learn more, read Advanced Guide to Lead Meetings That Get Results and People Want to Attend

And Finally...

Of course, managing meetings goes hand-in-hand with managing your calendar. A sales manager I worked with reorganized her calendar based on energy and prep time, and it made a huge impact. Courtney put all her 1:1s on Monday, and cut the time down to 45 minutes from an hour. This kept her focused on short term revenue growth. She calendar blocked three hours the day before her big, weekly management meeting to prepare and own what was happening in the territory. She also blocked time on Fridays for strategic thinking and prepping for the next week. And finally, she blocked time with sponsors or mentors so she could continue to grow her brand at the company. 

I hope you have a great start to the new year, and that you are more intentional with meeting and calendar management.

Enjoy,

Mary Jo

To learn more about my 1:1 executive, communication or business growth coaching, custom virtual workshops, the Career Transition program or just to connect, you can reach me at info@mjrcac.com

What is your word?

What is your word?

2023 is here, whether you are ready or not. One of the most valuable things I have been doing at the beginning of the year is to come up with my word for the year. Last year, my word was “impact”. It helped to center me when I was going in too many different directions.

Over the past week, here are two of the words for the year that I heard: Hope from a single mom who is thinking about a career change; Growth is the word of the year for a small business owner who focused on personal, spiritual and financial growth. My word for 2023 is Connect, and to connect in a deeper, more meaningful way.

#WiseWords

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

Mother Teresa

Worth the Share

What better way to start a new year than to think about how our thoughts and emotions impact our health? This article from the University of Minnesota has dozens of terrific insights. Some you know (and possibly ignore) and some may be new to you. Here are a few of my favorites.

  • Since we are wired for negativity bias, we “prioritize bad over good”
  • Chronic stress damages the immune system and can actually decrease our life span
  • Positive feelings, such as being connected to others, has a direct impact on health and well-being
  • Positivity can lead to fewer colds, better sleep, and faster recovery from cardiovascular stress
  • A practice of forgiveness is linked to better immune function and a longer life span

Take a minute to read the entire article and take the positivity self-test. I scored a 3.33. What’s your score and what does it mean?

And Finally...

Have you taken a few minutes to reflect on 2022? Have you written down personal and professional goals for 2023? A dear friend of mine who is a professional development coach, shared with me his PowerPoint presentation for his 2023 plan. Wow, was it impressive.

While I have not created a full-blown presentation, I have a format I use each year where I REFLECT on the previous year, DREAM about the future, set specific and measurable GOALS for the new year and SCHEDULE time to be and do things beyond coaching and facilitating workshops.

Wishing you and yours a very Happy New Year filled with joy, gratitude, growth, time for reflection, and lots of laughter.

And hopefully, the time to fully connect.

Enjoy,

Mary Jo

To learn more about my 1:1 executive, communication or business growth coaching, custom virtual workshops, the Career Transition program or just to connect, you can reach me at info@mjrcac.com